A Queen's Experience at Sea
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A Queen’s Experience at Sea


February, 2018 I boarded the ship. Standing 13 storeys tall and 200 meters long, this mighty ship was going to be my home for the next 3 months. I was apprehensive about getting sea sick, food and boredom. But trust me, those 3 months were the best months of my life! There’s something about the water that makes me feel free- away from the city traffic, away from pollution and most importantly I was with my sailor. Something that is very occasional is our queen lives.

A Queen's Experience at Sea

I boarded from UK. Went onto visit Germany, Belgium, Spain, South Africa, Australia, Korea, Japan and Singapore. I saw new places and ate new food. But the best part was that I could see what my husband actually does! Before the wedding his job role and job profile were a blur. But this was something extraordinary. The weekly drills and port duties were something new to me. I mean I’ve never seen him take control of a lifeboat or rescue boat. What he was doing felt so heroic to me. I could finally see and experience my sailors everyday routine and loved every bit of it.


We encountered a storm after leaving UK, ship was rolling and pitching like there’s no tomorrow. The furniture went from left to right and vice-versa along with the waves. It was then I learnt that furniture could be secured to the walls of the room! It was during this time I got a little seasick. However I went onto to see some of the most beautiful sunsets and sunrise any human has ever seen! I saw stars, planets, flying fish, dolphins, whales and sea lions. All these new experiences and sights overshadowed the few days of sea storm that we witnessed. Everyone on board was so warm and friendly. We had a mix of Filipino and Indian crew. There were 3 supernumeraries onboard, coincidently 2 more wives were there along with me, which made passing time a little easier.

A Queen's Experience at Sea

While we sailed from south Africa to Australia we had a good 10-12 days time of sailing which called for a party. We also had the equator crossing ceremony which was beyond hilarious. A few sailors dressed as random characters and performed the funniest of ceremonies. We had a barbecue that evening and swam in the pool filled with the Indian Ocean waters. The water was so salty yet so clear. It almost felt like I got a full body spa the next day.

Onboard, I had the opportunity to cook. I made my sailors favourite “gobi ke parathe” (cauliflower stuffed tortillas), Indian savoury called “pani puri”. Having a wife onboard is not only beneficial to her sailor but also to the crew onboard. Having family onboard creates a totally different atmosphere. The parties become more lively. There’s food made that’s tastes like home and the sailors also have someone to talk to when they miss their own homes.

A Queen's Experience at Sea

Apart from the travelling and the experience of travelling on ship there is much more to it. This is one opportunity where you can focus on YOURSELF. I started abstract drawing and working out in the gym. I used to go for evening walks. I could sit by the railing and watch the water for hours together. “Pin Drop Silence” had a new meaning to it. I rejuvenated and concentrated on my health. While I was focussing on making the best use of this time, my husband found a new way to get his chores such as laundry also done(obviously! by me!). He got a break from his one chore that bores him the most by teaching me how to operate the washer.

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A Queen's Experience at Sea

Being together for those 3 months brought us closer as a couple and we created memories of a lifetime! Both our birthdays fell onboard and we had celebrations with the entire crew. Everyone had become like a big fat joint Indian family. 3 months went by in no time and soon it was time to say a heart wrenching goodbye to everything and everyone. To the queens who are thinking of, or planning to sail with your sailors and have second thoughts about it…..take it from me. You will not repent this! Sailing with your sailor is one of the most memorable things you’ll do in your entire lifetime. Take a chance. After-all, the ocean is your husband’s second home.

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Siddharth Tyagi
Siddharth Tyagi
1 year ago

Usually I never comment on blogs but your article is so convincing that I never stop myself to say something about it. You’re doing a great job Man,Keep it up.